When you are dating a guy at what point do you start thinking about engagements and weddings? Many people in today’s society are so judgmental; when they feel that a person isn’t dating long enough, or if they feel the couple isn’t compatible or if they feel there’s a large age gap within the relationship they throw stones at that union. Well my response to them is: GET A LIFE!! I don’t have any one the following going on in my relationship but I said that to say, many people will NEVER be happy for you when you are in LOVE! I am learning that the hard way! My mom always tells me, as you travel this road in the near future you may lose some friends; the ones you lose they were NEVER your friend from the start! I didn’t understand her until recently! Unfortunately, everyone isn’t going to be happy for you and some may be waiting for you and your relationship to fail but as long as you and your mate are comfortable with each other and your relationship is centered around God and prayer, nothing or no one can pull you apart!